Parental alienation
1) Sabotaging and interfering with visits or not permitting visits at all.
2) Depriving the targeted parent of important information about the child, including but
not limited to medical, educational, and social activities.3) Not informing and excluding the targeted parent from the child’s activities, parent/
teacher conferences, birthdays, religious events, graduations, etc.4) Programming the child against the targeted parent by belittling, criticizing, and
deprecating the targeted parent in the child’s presence.5) Removing the targeted pictures of the targeted parent from the child’s awareness.
6) Interference with and not being supportive of contact between the targeted parent and
the child. This contact includes the telephone, text messaging, e-mailing, skype, or other
methods.7) Making unilateral decisions in major areas regarding the child.
8) Verbally and physically abusing the targeted parent by the child and/or alienating
parent.9) Defying the targeted parent’s supervision and authority.
10) Rejection of the targeted parent’s gifts, cards, vacations, and other offers of help.
Alienation doesn’t have to be what you tell a child it is keeping one parent away from the child and keeping information away from the other parent.
This is why it is so important to keep things in a manner which the child has both parents in their life.